I was born in Hamilton, moving to Montreal when I was six months old. It was in Montreal where I was raised and where my Jewish identity took root early. I attended Adath Israel Parochial School and spent summers at an Orthodox camp in the United States—experiences that grounded me in our traditions, our history, and the enduring importance of tzedakah. Those early lessons stayed with me, shaping the way I would live my life.  

At 15, I moved to Toronto. My path was not always easy or direct. As a young woman, I was not given the same opportunities as my brothers, and teaching became my way forward. Years later, after my father passed away, I returned to university, earned my degree, and built a career as a French teacher. Eventually, I created a French-language bookstore and publishing company, working with educators across North America. Teaching allowed me not only to educate, but to share who I was—a proud Jewish woman, confident in my identity.  

Throughout my life, Aubey has been my partner in everything that matters. Together, we built our family with a deep commitment to Jewish values, ensuring our children were connected to their heritage and community. Our home was always one where identity and responsibility went hand in hand.  

When I retired, I was asked to help raise funds for charity. I turned to something simple: teaching women how to play canasta. What began as a small initiative grew into a vibrant community. Today, hundreds of women come together through tournaments that raise meaningful funds for Jewish organizations, while also creating connection, friendship, and purpose—especially for those navigating later stages of life.  

A few years ago, I wanted to do something special for Aubey—something that reflected our shared values and would endure. As a surprise for his milestone birthday, I established the Aubey and Marilyn Banack Family Jewish Charitable Fund. It was my way of honouring him, of recognizing the life we built together, and of setting an example for our children and grandchildren. My hope was not only to give, but to inspire—to show that philanthropy can be a meaningful and lasting part of one’s legacy.  

October 7th marked a profound shift for our family. It deepened our commitment and strengthened our resolve. We have watched our children and grandchildren become more engaged, vocal, and proud of who they are. Seeing the next generation stand tall in their Jewish identity gives us both pride and hope.  

I don’t think of philanthropy as something that gives back to me. It is simply what needs to be done. At this stage of life, I feel a responsibility to lead by example—to show, quietly but clearly, what matters.  

Together, Aubey and I believe that if we can help light the way, even a little, the generations that follow will carry it forward.